What makes one Mortal Sin better than another?

What makes one Mortal Sin better than another?

"I can't believe THAT GUY is still around acting just fine when I am dealing with so much pain..." I've heard this basic thought multiple times recently.  It bothers me to hear it because instead of accepting one's own suffering as reparation for sins, they are committing sin against the 5th commandment.  This person is wishing their own pain was being cast against another. Pondering deeper on this thought, it really has roots in an idea that one persons vices are better than another.  A disturbing example of this is in the realm of sexuality.  There has been huge outbursts from all points of view on the subject of homosexuality. Trying to follow the back and forth debates can be dizzying.  If you take a step back and look at what the church teaches, it is clear that the issue has a much deeper problem. The teaching in the church is that EVERY sexual act be open to the transmission of new life. ...
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My Grandmothers Final Moments

My Grandmothers Final Moments

I have been thinking a lot about my grandmother who died while I was in my prodigal years.  The weekend before she died I had a feeling that I should go see her.  I made plans with her to visit that Sunday. Instead of going to see her, I went to the bar the night before and drank so much I was too hungover to go. Later that week I received a phone call from my father that she had been in a car accident and wasn't doing well.  When I got to the hospital she was hooked to a breathing tube and couldn't talk.  I walked up to see her and when she looked at me it was as if she didn't know who I was. If she did know who I was, she didn't look too happy to see me.  I left the room feeling awful.  My brother in law, a churchgoing man, had gone in after me. I...
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